Grits - Blame It On You Lyrics
Lyrics
she was a friend of me
soon become the enemy
my heart said it was meant to be
cold sweats and nightmares of killin her for breakin me
bound to be 1 from corruption of adultery
prayin at night this day i'll never see through
who knew this gal was out to get me for years
seein dreams of her scams professed before i had fans
delilahs kisses of deception was my justified stance
ignorance self contained in disobedient hands
infatuation claimed was true is definition of this
female relation contradictin my standards for this
witnessed the hand of god began divisions progress
as vintage for all my pain grew deep in my flesh
decisions to suffer bonds that of the startin distress
no less than foolness tribulated to bless
peace once released from the grip of distress
the culprit responsible found to be the likeness of me
the very images i blamed this on self
but not protectin my affections for conductions of hell
her spell had me bound like bank tellers and hostages
smell had me fooled like designer female imposters
why does it happen to the best of gods men?
we fall from desires of fruit thats been forbiddin
since the beginnin of time we been blamin the women
its not their fault that their fine
we need to wait til its given
blame it on you take the blame from me
if u was in my shoes you'd do the same to me
repercussion of hell from the hand it was dealt
i let you use up all my aces what im facin is needin help
(repeat)
feelin remorse from divorce
lettin nature take its ugly course
catapulting two people in love to insulting
i wish i never met you baby doll from dires join the concubine
jack it like a porcupine alliance in reliance
with self searchin for my key or else in trees
on the wrong side of the woods
and thats no good dancing earnestly with forward respect
swerving up and down super jet aint know the lightning bolts and storms bout to get
when i made them vows heard the screams and saw the cows
paid no mind, ignoring all the warning signs
from top to bottom of my finger monkeying around the dream believer
believin in happiness forever mine was crabbiness unclever unclear
temporarily brain dead my teeth in a poison cornbread of a rehab
we were woven that some day open the water rose above our heads
thats when the flesh came to life and the spirit metamorphed the dead
she killed me softer than a refugee and not sure what was left of me
bamboozled by a shuler when your united as one
the process labeled marriage took less than half a man seein a dad pushed in a baby carriage
pure and out of struggle responsibilities we juggle find it funny
aint no matter to scoff about or chuckle
beneath my stature a superman with no terry hatcher
i stand alone this time givin my lord this heart to capture
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Grits | Blame It On You
Meaning & Inspiration
Grits’ "Blame It On You," released on November 3, 1998, as part of their album *Factors of the Seven*, delves into the painful aftermath of a deceptive relationship, exploring themes of betrayal, self-blame, and the human tendency to deflect responsibility. The song paints a vivid picture of a man blindsided by a woman he initially trusted, only to discover her intentions were malicious. He recounts a journey from infatuation to disillusionment, marked by nightmares and a growing realization of her deceit. The lyrics explore the internal struggle of acknowledging one's own role in being taken advantage of, referencing the biblical narrative of Samson and Delilah to illustrate the destructive power of deception. The recurring plea to "blame it on you" and the assertion that another in his position would do the same highlight the desire to shift blame outward, a natural human reaction when facing profound hurt.
The song’s narrative then progresses to a deeper examination of personal responsibility and the consequences of ignoring red flags. The artist admits to making vows and entering into a union while willfully disregarding warning signs, a sentiment that resonates with the biblical warnings against foolish haste and disregarding wisdom. The metaphor of being "temporarily brain dead" and drowning in poison cornbread speaks to the mental and emotional paralysis that can accompany such experiences. The transformative pain described, where the "flesh came to life and the spirit metamorphed the dead," suggests a painful but ultimately redemptive process. This resonates with the concept of spiritual death and rebirth found throughout Scripture, where trials can lead to spiritual awakening and a renewed commitment to faith. The realization that he stands alone, giving his heart to the Lord, signifies a profound shift from seeking validation or solace in flawed human relationships to finding strength and purpose in divine guidance. This journey underscores the biblical principle that true fulfillment and security are found in God, not in the fleeting affections of others, reminding us that true strength often emerges from profound trials and a reliance on faith, as articulated in verses like Jeremiah 17:5, "Thus says the Lord: Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his arm, whose heart turns away from the Lord."