Philip Bailey - Easy Lover Lyrics
Lyrics
Easy lover
She'll get a hold on you, believe it
Like no other
Before you know it you'll be on your knees
She's an easy lover
She'll take your heart but you won't feel it
She's like no other
And I'm just trying to make you see
She's the kind of girl you dream of
Dream of keeping hold of
You'd better forget it
You'll never get it
She will play around and leave you
Leave you and deceive you
Better forget it
Oh, you'll regret it
No, you'll never change her, so leave it, leave it
Get out quick, 'cause seeing is believing
It's the only way
You'll ever know
She's an easy lover
She'll get a hold on you believe it
Like no other
Before you know it you'll be on your knees
She's an easy lover
She'll take your heart but you won't feel it
She's like no other
And I'm just trying to make you see
You're the one that wants to hold her
Hold her and control her
You'd better forget it
You'll never get it
For she'll say that there's no other
'Til she finds another
Better forget it
Oh, you'll regret it
And don't try to change her, just leave it, leave it
You're not the only one, ooh seeing is believing
It's the only way
You'll ever know, oh
No, don't try to change her, just leave it, leave it
You're not the only one, 'cause seeing is believing
It's the only way
You'll ever know
She's an easy lover (she's a easy lover)
She'll get a hold on you, believe it (get a hold on you)
(She's) like no other
Before you know it you'll be on your knees (you'll be down on your knees)
She's an easy lover
She'll take your heart but you won't feel it (you won't feel it)
She's like no other
And I'm just trying to make you see (trying to make you see)
She's an easy lover
She'll get a hold on you, believe it (get a hold on you)
And like no other
Before you know it you'll be on your knees (you'll be down on your knees, yeah, yeah, yeah)
She's an easy lover
She'll take your heart but you won't feel it (you won't feel it)
She's like no other
And I'm just trying to make you see (trying to make you see)
She's an easy lover
She'll get a hold on you, believe it
She's like no other
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Philip Bailey, Phil Collins - Easy Lover
Meaning & Inspiration
The soulful collaboration "Easy Lover" by Philip Bailey, featuring Phil Collins, originally released in 1984, presents a profound exploration of relational dynamics that resonates deeply with timeless spiritual truths. While not explicitly a Christian song in its lyrical content, its message about navigating the complexities of love and connection offers fertile ground for reflection through a scriptural lens. The narrative of an "easy lover"—someone who is perhaps too readily available, too quick to move on, or perhaps not deeply invested—mirrors the human tendency towards fleeting affections and the struggle to cultivate genuine, enduring commitment. This concept can be understood in contrast to the steadfast and unconditional love described in scripture, a love that is patient, kind, and perseveres through all circumstances. Consider the Apostle Paul's depiction of love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." The "easy lover" persona in the song, in its potential for superficiality or emotional unavailability, stands in stark opposition to this biblical ideal of love as a deep, active, and sacrificial pursuit. The song touches upon the emotional toll of relationships where one party may not be fully present or committed, leading to a sense of longing or dissatisfaction for the other. This echoes the spiritual yearning for a deeper connection, a divine love that is always present and unfailing, as Psalm 86:15 reminds us, "But you, Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness." The song, in its portrayal of the challenges within human relationships, can serve as a powerful reminder of the need for intentionality, truthfulness, and a commitment to fostering connections that are built on a foundation of genuine care and understanding, reflecting the divine call to love one another as Christ loved the church, a love that is neither casual nor easily discarded.