Love And The Outcome - Start from There Lyrics
Lyrics
I meant what I said but not how I said it
It's just I don't get why you don't get it
This isn't even the exit I take off of the freeway
Had to pull over and tell you I'm sorry
I don't know what you're thinking
Sometimes that makes me scared
But I know that you love me
Why don't we start from there
No matter where we're heading
I'm not going anywhere
I know I know you love me
Why don't we start from there
Why don't we start from there
Funny how hearts remember a sting
I guess forgiving isn't a one-time thing
When I see you smile it becomes so clear to me
Arrows they fly but you're not the enemy
I don't know what you're thinking
Sometimes that makes me scared
But I know that you love me
Why don't we start from there
No matter where we're heading
I'm not going anywhere
I know I know you love me
Why don't we start from there
Why don't we start from there (I know I know you love me)
Why don't we start from there (I know I know you love me)
Why don't we start from there (I know I know you love me)
Why don't we start from there (I know I know you love me)
Why don't we start from there (why don't we start from there)
I meant what I said but not how I said it
Had to pull over and tell you I'm sorry
I don't know what you're thinking
Sometimes that makes me scared
But I know that you love me
Why don't we start from there
No matter where we're heading
I'm not going anywhere
I know I know you love me
Why don't we start from there
Why don't we start from there (I know I know you love me)
Why don't we start from there (I know I know you love me)
Why don't we start from there (I know I know you love me)
Why don't we start from there (I know I know you love me)
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Start From There
Meaning & Inspiration
On January 13, 2022, Love And The Outcome offered a poignant and timely reflection on the complexities of human connection with their song, "Start from There." This track quickly establishes itself not just as a piece of music, but as a tender, yet firm, guide through the often-treacherous waters of misunderstanding and conflict within our most cherished relationships. It’s a beautifully honest acknowledgment that even when intentions are good, our words can sometimes miss their mark, causing unexpected pain or confusion.
The narrative of "Start from There" unfolds from a moment of urgent realization, where the speaker, having just uttered something regrettable, feels compelled to pull over on the freeway to apologize. This vivid imagery immediately grounds the song in a tangible, relatable scenario, portraying the raw human experience of remorse and the desperate desire to mend a rift before it widens. The core tension lies in the speaker's admission, "I meant what I said but not how I said it," highlighting the crucial difference between intent and delivery. Despite not fully grasping the other person’s perspective ("I don't know what you're thinking"), the unwavering conviction in their mutual love becomes the bedrock upon which reconciliation is sought. The recurring plea, "Why don't we start from there," isn't just a catchy chorus; it's a profound invitation to reset, to find common ground in the certainty of affection, regardless of the immediate disagreement.
The genius of "Start from There" lies in its profound understanding of relational dynamics, beautifully aligning with timeless spiritual truths. The song challenges us to pivot from focusing on the immediate offense to centering on the foundational love that binds us. This echoes the very heart of Christian teaching, where love is paramount, as emphasized in 1 John 4:7-8, reminding us that "whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love." When disagreements arise, this song encourages us to remember that love is the starting point, the ultimate truth that overrides temporary discord. The initial regret over poorly chosen words is a powerful reminder of Proverbs 15:1, which wisely states, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." It underscores the responsibility we bear for the impact of our communication, even when our intentions are pure.
Furthermore, the lyrics frankly acknowledge the lingering impact of hurt: "Funny how hearts remember a sting / I guess forgiving isn't a one-time thing." This honest appraisal of human frailty and the ongoing nature of grace resonates deeply with Christ's teaching on forgiveness. When Peter asked Jesus how many times he should forgive, Jesus’ response in Matthew 18:22, "seventy-seven times," wasn't a literal count but an illustration of limitless, continuous forgiveness. It reminds us that forgiveness is not a single event but often a repetitive, intentional act, a spiritual discipline that strengthens our bonds. The powerful declaration, "Arrows they fly but you're not the enemy," offers a transformative shift in perspective. In moments of conflict, it's easy to view the person across from us as the adversary. However, the song, much like Ephesians 6:12, redirects our gaze, suggesting that our true struggle isn't against "flesh and blood" but against the forces that seek to divide us—misunderstanding, pride, and fear. By identifying love as the unwavering constant, the enemy becomes the division itself, not the beloved individual.
Ultimately, "Start from There" is a powerful anthem of commitment and hope. The steadfast declaration, "No matter where we're heading / I'm not going anywhere," is a beautiful testament to enduring love—a love that chooses to stay and work through challenges. This resonates with the steadfast love of God described throughout Scripture, a covenantal love that never gives up. It calls us to emulate that divine perseverance in our own relationships, recognizing that genuine connection requires unwavering dedication and a willingness to continually return to the wellspring of shared affection. In a world often quick to discard and disconnect, Love And The Outcome delivers a vital message: sometimes, the most profound path forward is to simply remember the love that started it all, and from there, begin again.