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That's What The Pain Taught Me by Blu Monroe cover art

Blu Monroe - That's What The Pain Taught Me Lyrics

Artist:
Blu Monroe
Album:
Hood & Holy : City Girl
Official Release:
03 Apr 2026

Lyrics

Verse 1


Pain taught me everybody smiling ain't for me
And everybody clapping ain't proud to see me win
Pain taught me some doors gotta close in my face
So better things can finally let me in
Pain taught me stop begging folks to understand me
Everybody can't go where God is taking me
Pain taught me silence got more power than proving
And peace means more than being seen


Chorus


I used to take things personal
Now I just let it be
‘Cause what was meant to break me down
Ended up teaching me
That’s what the pain taught me
How to stand when it get hard
How to smile through the tears
And still protect my heart
That’s what the pain taught me
How to trust a higher plan
How to lose a lot of people
And still know who I am


Verse 2


I used to take things personal
Now I just let it be
‘Cause what was meant to break me down
Ended up teaching me
That’s what the pain taught me
How to trust a higher plan
How to lose a lot of people
And still know who I am
That’s what the pain taught me
How to sink with my own feelings
Without running every time life got real
Pain taught me God will strip away distractions
Just to show you what’s really meant to heal


Verse 3


Now I don’t chase what don’t choose me
I don’t force what don’t fit
‘Cause every loss that hurt my heart
Taught me how not to quit
That’s what the pain taught me
How to stand when it get hard
How to smile through the tears
And still protect my heart
That’s what the pain taught me
How to trust a higher plan
How to lose a lot of people
And still know who I am


Outro


That’s what the pain taught me
It changed the way I see
I may have cried through the lesson
But the lesson strengthened me
Pain taught me some people love to owe you better
The version they could use the one that stays small
Pain taught me healing make folks uncomfortable
Especially when they thought you’d fall
That’s what the pain taught me
How to trust a higher plan
How to lose a lot of people
And still know who I am
That’s what the pain taught me
It changed the way I see
I may have cried through the lesson
But the lesson strengthened me


Outro Continued


I’m wiser now I see
Everything that tried to break me
Built a better me


Credits & Song Information

Label
9577608 Records DK
Community reviewed · Apple Music
Performed By
Blu Monroe
Community reviewed · Apple Music
Release Date
April 3, 2026
Community reviewed · Apple Music

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Meaning & Inspiration

The song frames hardship as an education in discernment and resilience: betrayal clarifies who can be trusted, loss redirects ambition, and survival turns pain into perspective. Its recurring lesson motif gives the recording a testimony-like arc from hurt to hard-earned confidence.