Francesca Battistelli - The Breakup Song Lyrics
Released: 21 Sep 2018
Lyrics
Intro
Sick and tired of being sick and tired
Had as much of you as I can take
I'm so done, so over being afraid
Verse 1
I've gone through the motions
I've been back and forth
I know that you're thinking you've heard this before
I don't know how to say it
So I'm just gonna say it, yeah
Chorus
Fear, you don't own me
There ain't no room in this story
And I ain't got time for you
Telling me what I'm not
Like you know me, well guess what?
I know who I am
I know I'm strong
And I am free
Got my own identity
So fear, you will never be welcome here
Verse 2
Take a minute, let it settle in
You probably never saw it coming
Something's gotta give so I give up you, oh
There's no room for you here
Yeah, I've had enough
The no vacancy sign on my heart is lit up
In case you didn't hear it
Here it is again
Chorus
Oh, fear, you don't own me
There ain't no room in this story
And I ain't got time for you
Telling me what I'm not
Like you know me, well guess what?
I know who I am
I know I'm strong
And I am free
Got my own identity
So fear, you will never be welcome here
Bridge
Is there anybody out there just like me?
(Anybody out there?)
Anybody needing fear to leave? (Ooo yeah)
If you don't know how to say it
Sing along with me
Chorus
Sing fear, you don't own me
There ain't no room in this story
And I ain't got time for you
Telling me what I'm not
Like you know me, well guess what?
I know who I am
I know I'm strong, brave
And I am free
Got my own identity
So fear, you will never be welcome here
Woah, goodbye, goodbye fear, woah
You will never be welcome here
Video
Francesca Battistelli - The Breakup Song (Official Music Video)
Meaning & Inspiration
Francesca Battistelli's "The Breakup Song," released in 2018 as a single from the remix effort, "The Breakup Song (AC.jR & BradyJames Remix)," offers a powerfully relatable narrative of overcoming a broken relationship through unwavering faith and self-worth. While the title might suggest a typical romantic lament, the song delves much deeper, resonating with the spiritual fortitude found in trusting God’s plan even when faced with personal disappointment. The core message centers on the transformative power of recognizing one’s inherent value, not in the eyes of a departed partner, but in the steadfast love of the Creator. This liberation from conditional affection allows for a rediscovery of inner strength, a theme deeply woven into the fabric of Scripture.
Battistelli’s lyrics articulate a journey from hurt to healing, emphasizing the choice to embrace God’s perspective over the pain of rejection. This resonates strongly with passages like Jeremiah 29:11, which promises a future filled with hope and purpose, designed by God Himself. The song suggests that a true "breakup" is not just from a person, but from the unhealthy patterns and low expectations that may have accompanied that relationship. It’s about severing ties with the notion that one’s identity or happiness is dependent on another’s approval. Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me," serves as a foundational truth for this message, empowering the individual to rise above adversity with divine assistance. The song celebrates the realization that a relationship’s end, though painful, can be an opening to a more fulfilling path, guided by heavenly wisdom. This echoes the wisdom found in Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths." "The Breakup Song" is ultimately an anthem of resilience, a testament to the truth that when we allow God to redefine our worth and lead our steps, even the most challenging endings can become the most beautiful beginnings. It’s a reminder that our most secure love story is with the One who never leaves nor forsakes us.