KJ-52 - Wait for You Lyrics
Lyrics
"what's up, na i'm just chillen,
how you doin ya,
ya i'll be over later, alright, i love you bye"
yo check it, yo what's up girl yo what's the deal
and yo i can't front and act like i don't know just how you feel
cuz i've been there and i've done that
it seems like no matter what you do your feelin trapped, now it's a fact
now it's a serious choice that you choosing to sleep with him
cuz you jsut afraid that your gonna lose him
you can't see the consequences of what your doing
he gonna leave you ruined
it's your body he just using
and i don't wanna hear what he done for you
how he kisses and hugs on you
and how he's like "i got love for you"
a man gotta do what a man gotta do
but what a man outta do's respect you
God's got a better plan for you a btter man for you
but it's up to you to pick from the choices that i'm handing you
don't let him play with you cuz it ain't too late for you
cuz if he really loves you girl he'll just wait for you
I'm gonna wait for you,
i'll save myself for you
i'm gonna wait for you
i'll save myself for you
yo yo what's up dude yo what's the deal
i hear you braggin' how your baggin' chicks
oh yeah you keep it real
you got game you mack now you the player
sit down shut up and listen to what i gots to tell ya
you jsut a real man when your having sex right?
i used to have a dog who had sex every night
that didn't make my dog a real man now did it?
you ain't a real man cuz you hit it and
you bounced when you finished now
see to me it takes a real man to wait to get it
i waited till i was married son and i never regret it
it ain't a dirty word to be a virgin
God's got a better plan for you but you need to start learning
i kow your burnin' see i ain't trying to make you mad
you gotta understand why all these kids ain't got no dad
what i lay down is common sense
is everybody wants sex but they don't want the consequence
I'm gonna wait for you
i'll save myself for you
i'm gonna wait for you
i'll save myself for you
I'm gonna wait for you
i'll save myself for you
i'm gonna wait for you
i'll save myself for you(babay)
"hello, ya ya listen we're not ready
ya we need to wait we gotta do this right,
ya alright, i love you i'll talk to you tomorrow"
Video
Wait For You
Meaning & Inspiration
KJ-52's impactful track, "Wait for You," released on January 1, 2011, as part of the album *Kj-52*, stands as a powerful call to purity and intentional relationships in a world often swayed by immediate gratification. The song dives headfirst into sensitive yet crucial conversations about sexual integrity, delivering its message with a directness that is both challenging and deeply compassionate. From its opening dialogue snippets to its final resolve, the track constructs a compelling narrative around the wisdom of waiting and the profound value of self-respect and mutual honor, all rooted in a divine perspective.
The song unfolds by first addressing a young woman caught in a compromising situation, feeling pressured and trapped in a relationship where she sacrifices her dignity out of fear of abandonment. KJ-52 candidly points out the manipulative dynamic, asserting that true love would not exploit but rather respect and patiently wait. He challenges the illusion of affection, reminding her that a man's genuine duty is to honor, not just to act on transient desires. This segment resonates deeply with biblical principles that urge believers to flee from sexual immorality, as seen in 1 Corinthians 6:18, which declares that "every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body." Furthermore, the message echoes 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, encouraging individuals to "abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God." The song posits that God indeed has a better, more honoring plan, offering a pathway to a relationship built on genuine respect and enduring commitment rather than fleeting physical connections, a truth underscored by Proverbs 18:22, which speaks of finding a good wife as obtaining favor from the Lord.
The recurring chorus, "I'm gonna wait for you, I'll save myself for you," serves as the song's unwavering anchor, a personal vow of commitment and purity that reflects a counter-cultural stance. This declaration isn't just a personal promise; it’s a direct response to a cultural narrative that often trivializes sexual expression. It beautifully aligns with the call to live a life set apart, as Romans 12:1-2 urges us to "present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind." The act of saving oneself is portrayed not as a sacrifice of pleasure, but as an investment in a future relationship founded on God's design, preserving the intimacy and sacredness of marriage as described in Hebrews 13:4: "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous."
The narrative then shifts its focus, powerfully addressing young men who equate sexual conquests with genuine masculinity. KJ-52 dismantles this misconception by drawing a stark, almost humorous, contrast, asserting that true strength and manhood are not measured by promiscuity but by self-control and the ability to honor and wait. He boldly declares that being a virgin is not a mark of weakness but of commendable strength, courage, and adherence to a higher standard. This perspective directly challenges societal norms that often pressure young men to prove their worth through sexual experience, instead aligning with the biblical understanding of self-control as a fruit of the Spirit, as noted in Galatians 5:22-23. Proverbs 16:32 reminds us that "Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city," highlighting the profound strength found in self-mastery. The song underscores the devastating ripple effects of irresponsible actions, particularly the prevalence of fatherlessness, a societal ill that often stems from casual sexual encounters. It calls for men to embrace the responsibility and wisdom found in God’s plan, which promises blessing and stability when relationships are built on covenant and commitment, as opposed to the fleeting satisfaction of lust, which Proverbs 7:26-27 warns can lead to ruin.
Ultimately, "Wait for You" culminates with a powerful message of hope and renewed commitment. The final spoken words in the outro, signifying a decision to wait and "do this right," offer a tangible picture of the song's message put into practice. It’s an inspiring affirmation that choosing purity and patience is not only possible but ultimately leads to a more fulfilling and God-honoring life. The song is a vital reminder that God's plans are always for our good, to give us a future and a hope, as promised in Jeremiah 29:11. It encourages every individual, regardless of their past, to embrace God's design for relationships, trusting that in His timing and through obedience, a love story far more profound and enduring than any fleeting romance can be realized. KJ-52’s work here isn't just music; it's a ministry, offering guidance and encouragement to navigate life's most intimate decisions with wisdom, respect, and unwavering faith.